• Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de
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    8 hours ago

    what the fuck? no, that’s lewd, you disgusting pervert!
    …would you wear a collar and a skirt?
    😳
    👉👈

    but more seriously, and apologies for the wall of text and being a bit personal:
    This is something that drives me up the wall, idk if i’m just poisoned by heteronormativity but i’m sooo sensitive to masculinity, if my lizard brain detects too much masculinity and not enough femininity it just vetoes things entirely and slaps me across the face for daring to traumatize it so.
    But at the same time i really find the concept of someone with a dick appealing! And i even like the absence of either masculinity or femininity as well!
    It’s kind of maddening. I think the 2 main things that prevents the instinctive rejection is absence of body hair and having both muscle and a lot of body fat, because somehow big buff hairless gym guys are just kind of neutral to me, i don’t particularly want to snog them but i also don’t find them gross in a sexual context.

    TL:DR: i’d hope so but i couldn’t make any promises 😭