was definitely a rocky entrance and felt like I had to stand up for myself and looking back at this is cute from the week after that.
but indeed right then is where all my submissions stopped getting downvoted every week and since then not a single hostile word toward me from anyone ~and that was 7 months ago.
Sorry if you weren’t a badguy. No regrets here tho since all hostility did cease, which was needed for it to be a healthy environment.
Looking back, I now no longer say that’s an understandable reason to not want me to be mod. I understand your personal feelings wanting me to not be mod since we were opposing. But there was constant hostility toward me until I stopped it, which I did by successfully standing up for myself (not now saying you were the aggressor) and it was followed by seven months of no longer my submissions downvoted every week nor hostility. So I disagree and believe that having to put my hoof down at the start is essentially over and irrelevant for all the months following and mod.
Wading into the fray here, but is that screenshot supposed to show an attack? I don’t see anything there. Also looking at your history I don’t see anything.
allo’s entry to the community coincided with somebody downvoting all the challenge entries and allo targeted me publicly without proof for being the downvoter, for cheating &c
Mods had to intervene and allo calmed down.
for some time, that is. Now that they want to be a mod, and i openly disagree with it, Allo took it as an “attack”. But, as you see, it’s just disagreement and somebody who can’t handle a simple disagreement definitely shouldn’t be a mod.
don’t worry about it. When I got here merde was verbally assaulting me as, if you stay a while, you will see he does to others, and every time he would submit his weekly entry, right then mine would get a downvote and be, with moopoos, the only downvoted entry. It is called bullying and, unlike the rikudoosage guy who deleted his post and stopped posting recently when merde attacked him instead of merde convey himself politely, I struck back, leadership became involved, and that screenshot is my first submission that was not instantly downvoted when merde posted his each week. Yeah my history shouldn’t show anything because that was ancient and I thought over. Apparently not tho and requires blocking because I don’t come here to fight. This is also the last I will talk about him so don’t worry if you don’t understand; it’s just ‘he said she said’ from your perspective.
just look back on this when you see him attack someone. I’m the one that lived.
Anyway, i played a game the other night where someone was all in to infighting, so I blocked them, again the energy was good, was able to do a surprise victory, and even the blocked guy gave me a thumbs up afterward. I can’t stand bullying and, if anything, the main issue I see with myself as mod is I would be overprotective, which is why my areas are places of peace where no one is attacked. Can’t stand it. So blocked, now the environment is a little brighter, and here’s to another 7 months of peace :)
no. you are the only aggressive person in this community, were that way toward me until that, and I am amazed you are trying to start stuff again. At this point no. I am blocking you and contacting a mod. When you start downvoting all my submissions again we will all know it’s you.
Ok, I’m going to lock this down now. I can recount everything that happened in the past but I’ll keep it short.
Downvotes happen, some people just like to do drive-by downvoting without ever leaving a comment. In the end no harm comes from it, it doesn’t affect the challenge and everyone who matters will appreciate your content regardless of what some random downvoter thinks.
Merde did not downvote, and you have no proof otherwise. Feel free to see if you can convince an admin to give an overview of the downvotes but we both know they have better things to do than to deal with this.
Everything that followed after is a result of your accusation, the deleted comments are in the modlog if you want to revisit that past.
I really don’t want to do this, Allo. In general you are a welcome member to this community and I appreciate your contributions. But digging this up again is just not helping.
i don’t know if you’re going to see this or not but this discussion is a demonstration of why you shouldn’t be a mod.
there’s nothing to moderate in my comments.
my argument: you shouldn’t be a mod. You’re immature.
your argument: it was you who was downvoting everybody and “we will know it’s you”
the point is, like i wrote back then when i reported you for targeting me, admins on lemmy are able to see who downvotes what. And they already knew that your claims were baseless.
you’re stepping onto “paranoia” now, that is if you weren’t already there
how did i attack you?
oh idk whistles innocently
was definitely a rocky entrance and felt like I had to stand up for myself and looking back at this is cute from the week after that.
but indeed right then is where all my submissions stopped getting downvoted every week and since then not a single hostile word toward me from anyone ~and that was 7 months ago.
Sorry if you weren’t a badguy. No regrets here tho since all hostility did cease, which was needed for it to be a healthy environment.
Looking back, I now no longer say that’s an understandable reason to not want me to be mod. I understand your personal feelings wanting me to not be mod since we were opposing. But there was constant hostility toward me until I stopped it, which I did by successfully standing up for myself (not now saying you were the aggressor) and it was followed by seven months of no longer my submissions downvoted every week nor hostility. So I disagree and believe that having to put my hoof down at the start is essentially over and irrelevant for all the months following and mod.
Wading into the fray here, but is that screenshot supposed to show an attack? I don’t see anything there. Also looking at your history I don’t see anything.
So I’m a bit confused about what’s going on here…
hello,
allo’s entry to the community coincided with somebody downvoting all the challenge entries and allo targeted me publicly without proof for being the downvoter, for cheating &c
Mods had to intervene and allo calmed down.
for some time, that is. Now that they want to be a mod, and i openly disagree with it, Allo took it as an “attack”. But, as you see, it’s just disagreement and somebody who can’t handle a simple disagreement definitely shouldn’t be a mod.
that’s all 🤷
don’t worry about it. When I got here merde was verbally assaulting me as, if you stay a while, you will see he does to others, and every time he would submit his weekly entry, right then mine would get a downvote and be, with moopoos, the only downvoted entry. It is called bullying and, unlike the rikudoosage guy who deleted his post and stopped posting recently when merde attacked him instead of merde convey himself politely, I struck back, leadership became involved, and that screenshot is my first submission that was not instantly downvoted when merde posted his each week. Yeah my history shouldn’t show anything because that was ancient and I thought over. Apparently not tho and requires blocking because I don’t come here to fight. This is also the last I will talk about him so don’t worry if you don’t understand; it’s just ‘he said she said’ from your perspective. just look back on this when you see him attack someone. I’m the one that lived.
Anyway, i played a game the other night where someone was all in to infighting, so I blocked them, again the energy was good, was able to do a surprise victory, and even the blocked guy gave me a thumbs up afterward. I can’t stand bullying and, if anything, the main issue I see with myself as mod is I would be overprotective, which is why my areas are places of peace where no one is attacked. Can’t stand it. So blocked, now the environment is a little brighter, and here’s to another 7 months of peace :)
we weren’t “opposing”. You were attacking me.
you think that you stopped the person who was downvoting all our posts 🤔 how did you do that?
i don’t think that attacking a random member of this community would be dissuading enough for the person who was doing the negligible downVoting.
“attacking a random person” lol
no. you are the only aggressive person in this community, were that way toward me until that, and I am amazed you are trying to start stuff again. At this point no. I am blocking you and contacting a mod. When you start downvoting all my submissions again we will all know it’s you.
Ok, I’m going to lock this down now. I can recount everything that happened in the past but I’ll keep it short.
I really don’t want to do this, Allo. In general you are a welcome member to this community and I appreciate your contributions. But digging this up again is just not helping.
cc: @merde@sh.itjust.works
i don’t know if you’re going to see this or not but this discussion is a demonstration of why you shouldn’t be a mod.
there’s nothing to moderate in my comments.
my argument: you shouldn’t be a mod. You’re immature.
your argument: it was you who was downvoting everybody and “we will know it’s you”
the point is, like i wrote back then when i reported you for targeting me, admins on lemmy are able to see who downvotes what. And they already knew that your claims were baseless.
you’re stepping onto “paranoia” now, that is if you weren’t already there