• Nommer@sh.itjust.works
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      1 year ago

      Oh… So I’ve fairly recently been questioning bi but I’ve already had zero luck with women. I’m fucked aren’t I?

      • MagicPterodactyl@lemmy.ml
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        1 year ago

        I’m a bi guy in my late 20s. In my experience telling a woman you are bi is an excellent way to find out who she is. Most women my age think it’s cool or even hot, then a small few show that they are homophobic pieces of shit. Either way you get a quick answer on if they are worth pursuing.

        Now if you are in an older generation or in an extremely conservative area your luck may not be as good as mine. But it’s worth remembering that if you can fuck dudes if you have trouble with women, which is also very fun.

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      A lot of women are into bi guys.

      Just depends if you’re looking for church ladies or alt chicks.

      Edit to paraphrase: It just depends on what you’re looking for, and what your dating pool looks like.

      A socially conservative woman is more likely to balk at dating a bisexual man, but socially liberal/progressive women are far more likely to be fine with dating a bisexual man. Some in the latter camp will even be excited at the prospect of dating someone who’s bisexual. It’s certainly not an automatic penalty against your dating prospects, and in the right milieu it can even be an asset.