When I was a kid in the 90s/00s, I was basically a shy nerdy (later to be determined as autistic) twink.
Almost all my friends were girls, because… almost all the guys I knew were rude macho assholes.
… I guess I am an outlier, possibly along with my friend group, but uh, I did get invited to, and attend, a good number of slumber/cuddle parties.
I know this may sound unbelievable, but they really were just cuddling, no hardcore sexual acts.
Well ok, one time a female friend of one of my female friends, who I hadn’t met before… we ended up making out and fondling each other, but our clothes stayed on, I swear!
I absolutely believe you as i had a rommie with which i cuddled. She told me that she is not attracted to me at all so there was no thoughts about romance or sex. I loved it and i miss it but i also have to admit that my very stupid brain would fall in love with any women (not related to me) that cuddles with me repeatedly.
and this is why i consider a partner a prerequisite for a lot of my improved mental health, my lizard brain needs that… hole… filled before it can quiet down and let me get on with things.
When I was a kid in the 90s/00s, I was basically a shy nerdy (later to be determined as autistic) twink.
Almost all my friends were girls, because… almost all the guys I knew were rude macho assholes.
… I guess I am an outlier, possibly along with my friend group, but uh, I did get invited to, and attend, a good number of slumber/cuddle parties.
I know this may sound unbelievable, but they really were just cuddling, no hardcore sexual acts.
Well ok, one time a female friend of one of my female friends, who I hadn’t met before… we ended up making out and fondling each other, but our clothes stayed on, I swear!
I absolutely believe you as i had a rommie with which i cuddled. She told me that she is not attracted to me at all so there was no thoughts about romance or sex. I loved it and i miss it but i also have to admit that my very stupid brain would fall in love with any women (not related to me) that cuddles with me repeatedly.
and this is why i consider a partner a prerequisite for a lot of my improved mental health, my lizard brain needs that… hole… filled before it can quiet down and let me get on with things.
sad for the people that struggle to find a partner
i am sad