• BigBananaDealer@lemm.ee
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    1 day ago

    i dont need to read up on what ADHD is, i fucking have it

    just speaking from experience, getting called out on stank ass morning breath made brushing my teeth every morning a surefire routine I almost never miss, just trying to help you from what i already went through

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          1 day ago

          What you said boils down to “just do it”. You recognise why that’s a bad thing to say, yeah?

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            1 day ago

            no it doesnt and no i dont, youll have to be clearer than that. why is it bad to say? i think its worse going around with shit breath than to tell someone to remember to brush their teeth in the morning

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              1 day ago

              “Just do it” is what neurotypicals say when they want to give advice. “Just exercise more”, “just do yoga”, “just make a list”, “just take out the trash everyday”, “just put it away after you use it”, “just fix your sleep”, “just make an effort”, “just be normal”. It’s not advice, it’s unhelpful and talking down to a child.

              Honestly weird that you say you haven’t encountered it.

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                1 day ago

                i never said just do it so why does this apply to me?

                and i also never said i never encountered it

                honestly its weird you make so many assumptions on me all because i brush my teeth in the morning

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                  1 day ago

                  “Please brush your teeth in the morning” is “just do it”. Honestly, even adding “the people around you can smell your bad breath” would’ve been an improvement of sorts.

                  You said you didn’t know why “just do it” is a bad thing to say which implies nobody’s ever said it to you.

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                    1 day ago

                    i figured it was obvious that people around you can smell it, why else would i tell someone to brush their teeth in the morning?