the goodreads app is absolute garbage. It hasn’t been updated in years. This might be what motivates me to check out some of the other apps mentioned in this post

Not necessarily. Two of my best friends were heavy smokers for 20 years. They were mindful to always do it outside, away from the doors/windows when they were over. They didn’t need lecturing from me. They knew. They hated it. When they had their first kid they finally quit. I asked one of them what was it, and he said, “I finally found something I wanted more.”

this was super helpful. Thank you for making this