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  • Being real for a sec, are you doing okay with everything? This can’t have been very fun for you to engage with so it’s starting to seem like you just want someone to talk to.

    I try to keep in mind that there are real humans beyond the words we’re typing and these peoples have lives and stress and a bunch of shit we could never see.

    Social media, especially karma systems, are a quick way to feel like we’re being social, but the upvote/downvote system psychologically puts us in constant competition, as though conversations can have a clear winner and loser.

    I’m not going to call you names back, I’ve played that game, it doesn’t feel very good. Any hobbies you’re currently excited about? I have a couple things I’m doing I could talk about too?

    And if you really are just having fun saying “Cunt.” over and over that’s fine too, I’m just confused what you’re getting out of it.


  • What are you doing? The time to have a polite conversation about this was before you called me a “Cunt”.

    You’ve acted way too immature and now are trying to resurrect a dead argument. Cool yourself down, get some fresh air, and move on.

    Think of that image you keep posting of the guy going “Jesus Fucking Christ” and leaving the room. It’s powerful because he actually leaves the room. He doesn’t need the last word or to keep engaging with the stuff, he just walks away. You have to learn when to do that for your own sanity and it’s been long past that point don’t you think?



  • Considering you started this conversation blatantly calling me dishonest for recommending a writer

    You totally misread that. Please don’t blame me for assumptions that only exist in your head. I will tell you what I mean if you ask.

    I called you dishonest for saying he did something “problematic” but took accountability for it to immediately saying he didn’t do anything “problematic”.

    Either one is true or the other and since it’s your recommendation I was asking you to clarify.

    You’re obviously a big fan of this author I’ve never heard of and are taking this very personally.

    What did your other response say before you deleted it?

    Lmfao, seriously you are letting this bother you so much! Just step away. I accidentally hit some random buttons when I was trying to read your reply and it somehow posted a blank string, if that helps your anxiety.

    Have a nice day, enjoy the weather!


  • Wait, are you telling me the Bible is contradictory?!?

    I’m not telling you anything, I simply quoted it. Read the passages.

    If you see a contradiction then that’s what your brain is telling yourself.

    Or are you going to argue that according to the Bible, it’s other Christians who are actually the ones who are meant to judge?

    I’m not going to argue anything. I’m simply going to quote the Bible again.

    But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister[c] but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.

    What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside. “Expel the wicked person from among you.”

    -Corinthians 5:11-13






  • WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.mlto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule away Rowling
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    Just a few comments up you said

    He stopped using it for that very reason, and took accountability. People are allowed to self correct, if he understands the problem with what he did and course corrected

    Now that you were pushed on it a bit you’re saying

    It really was not problematic, even at the time of it being used.

    Something about this interaction feels really dishonest.

    Was there a problem he needed to take accountability for or not?


  • WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.mltomemes@lemmy.worldNice one
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    If someone sends me a one word reply of “yes” to “what is the purpose of this meeting and is my presence beneficial” then it wouldn’t matter what I asked lol.

    lol

    But just to reiterate the point I was making earlier, the idea is to avoid someone responding to “what is the purpose of this meeting and is my presence beneficial” with something along the lines of “the purpose is to discuss X, Y, and Z. Yes your input would be a big help thanks.”

    Curious on your thoughts on the suggestion I made and whether it improves communication or not?


  • WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.mltoMemes@lemmy.mlWeapons Of Mass Deception
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    I guess reading comprehension is that bad. Here was the rest of the comment:

    The justification for attacking them is that they need to be stopped before they cross the line.

    I’m not saying I agree with this line of reasoning, but the clear idea is that Iran doesn’t currently have nuclear weapons.





  • WhatsTheHoldup@lemmy.mltomemes@lemmy.worldNice one
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    If you ask the person who invited you to a meeting “is my presence beneficial” they’re going to answer “yes”. That’s why they invited you.

    The purpose is to figure out whether your presence is actually needed, not whether they think it is.

    I do like a lot of your ideas though, I might suggest:

    “What is this meeting about? I’m trying to figure out if my presence would be beneficial.”

    That way you are the determinant of whether your presence is necessary, and the other person has to articulate what the actual benefit would be as opposed to just saying “yes”.