I, like many gamers, grew up playing PokƩmon Red and Nintendo 64 and was obsessed with Nintendo products. I graduated to a PS2 and PS3 and became super into Metal Gear Solid and Call of Duty and Fallout. Also spent a ton of time with the Guitar Hero series. I loved the escape gaming brought me and it genuinely helped me relax.

Fast forward a few years and I hadnā€™t really played a video game between the years of like 2011-2017. College, moving cross country and busyness of life kept me from gaming. Finally in 2017, I bought a Switch and Breath of the Wild and felt the same magical feeling I remember when I first started playing Ocarina of Time, or the first time I booted up Metroid Prime, or Metal Gear Solid 4. I started to get into online gaming and made a lot of friends. I played my Switch frequently for a few years.

During the beginning of COVID lockdowns, I turned more to reading than gaming and my Switch gathered lots of dust. I ultimately ended up buying an Xbox Series S when it was announced because Iā€™d never owned an Xbox system and Game Pass really intrigued me. I went through a phase of being very into Destiny 2, Halo, Gears of War, Forza Horizonā€¦a bunch of games I had never played before.

Then, a divorce, a new job change, another cross country move brought new levels of stress to my life. I lacked an attention span strong enough to focus on a video game. FPSā€™s seemed boring, online games couldnā€™t keep my attention long enough to get through a match, and eventually Iā€™d just leave a game on the pause menu while I messed around mindlessly on my phone. Gaming wasnā€™t even a way for me to decompress anymore, it seemed more like a chore I was procrastinatingā€”which sucks.

Iā€™ve fallen deeper into this lately, as more life changes have come along. I work a stressful job with long hours. Iā€™m now a stepparent to two young boys. The little free time I have I spend walking the dog, reading, and trying to just let my mind settle and decompress. Let alone, if I try to turn the Xbox on or have the Switch on my lap, it turns into a whole event where the kids want to sit and watch and participate and ask tons of questions (which is fine, but sometimes I just want to do something by myself for me!)

I miss the time of my youth where gaming was a relief and a release for me. I miss how I felt when I first got a Switch and felt so excited and so nostalgic and reinvigorated and looked forward to playing a game! Nowā€¦I feel like I canā€™t even consider myself a gamer.

So. Thatā€™s a long winded way to ask if anyone else has gone through similar ruts, or fallen away from gaming, and if so, what games helped you get that spark back? What games brought you back to that nostalgic feeling you had when you first got into gaming? What games help you decompress after a long day? What games have you recently become obsessed with in such a way that you look forward to playing them and are always thinking about them?

I want to get back into gaming. I want to feel the magic again.

  • ConstableJelly@beehaw.org
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    1 year ago

    Have you played Outer Wilds by chance? I agree with many that itā€™s probably one of the best games ever made, and I canā€™t think of any game that better encapsulates what games should be capable of. It captures the magical potential of exploration and discovery like nothing else Iā€™ve ever played. So many cool ideas waiting for you to figure out, and the process is just so fun.

    Along those lines, Iā€™ve just been growing fonder of smaller, indie-style games, which had never been my preference before now. Games like Gris, Little Nightmares, Hades (if you consider that ā€œsmallerā€), Deliver Us the Moon have left a really positive impression. Many of them are imperfect, but I feel like thereā€™s a lot of love tangible in those experiences. Maybe Iā€™m just imagining that, but they lack the bloat that has disillusioned me with a lot of the bigger games lately, and they feel more purposeful in general.

    If you havenā€™t, look through some lists of best indie games and see if anything jumps out at ya.

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      1 year ago

      There are moments in Outer Wilds that left me grinning like a child. It hits at that same time of wonder I felt playing ocarina of time when I was very young

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        1 year ago

        Exactly! There were other times that I donā€™t want to mention here cause I donā€™t know how to hide spoilers, where my fully adult mind too was thrilled by some of the revelations.

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        My girlfriend got me to play Outer Wilds and the first thing I did was try to fly into the sun and she was just staring at me like ā€œwhy are you like thisā€ while I was grinning like mad.