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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/VINEXTbtw on 2023-09-16 04:29:29.
Hy there folks, i’m 18 and i need some advice. Me and my gf are both young, as already said 18, and never had sex before. The “problem” is my that girlfried NEVER touched herself with fingers in, never used tampons or anything inside her vagina, so it’s way too tight for sex. Today, we tried for hours but it won’t go in, and she says that it hurts. I would love to hear some advice :)
I’m not a doctor, but I’ve heard of vaginismus and I think it can be like that. There are real doctors who can help with this kind of thing, she could share about this experience with her primary care and that doctor should be able to refer to someone.
But there’s a whole hell of a lot more to sex than just sticking the penis into things, make sure she’s having a good time, for a person’s body to betray them in such an intimate moment can be terribly crushing. Before we worry about orgasms, make sure she knows you care about her enjoying the experience.