Nobody tells me what I’m going to do or where I will be going and when that happens
I am open to invitations or requests or suggestions where my involvement is desired or ostensibly necesary for somone else. But I will never respond to this as a statement of fact or in the form of a threat
Its been interesting engaging with people I know now that everyone is aware we don’t mix factual and feelings-based conversations.
Much nicer when we know what’s debatable or negotiable and what is off-limits.