I’m a woman who likes manly men. Looooves men. Although I find some women very pretty, I LOVE men and view most women as friends. Can I still consider myself omni/pansexual with no preference?

Or am I just an ally?

I respect everyone regardless of gender and orientation, but I can’t name any women crushes/attractions when I think about it, as stunning as I find women. I was watching Mean Girls the other day and realized Regina was very pretty, for example, but I’ve never had any crushes that were even fictional on women.

I can relate to other women who talk about men, but as soon as someone mentions attractive women, I just can’t relate anymore. I don’t find it easy to talk about women that actually attract me (just pretty ones like Regina George and her actress) but I can talk about many men.

However, I’ve had several male attractions and boyfriends, and I think they’re really handsome.

In fact, I’m borderline obsessed with attractive men. Male celebrities, my boyfriend whenever I have one, whoever.

I think the gay memes are really funny though and saying I like women, so I’ve just said I was pan or omni, maybe even just bi, who knows?