That was quite literally the problem, I was browsing on my phone in bed before I put my glasses on hahaha

And on the other hand, there have been at least 3 scandals that broke in my local area alone about male teachers who were inappropriate with students being quietly moved to different school districts with huge settlement payments. And no justice for the victims.

We need to dismantle our rape culture for both types of victims.

I’m sure cannedtuna isn’t crying about it.

Loooove a good potluck and my goodness, THAT looks like it was a good potluck! The rosemary throughout is a nice touch. I’m gonna have to steal that brussels sprout combo, it sounds really good.

There’s dozens of you! DOZENS!

Arrested development reference for those that know

I saw your name and thought you were another user named Miisha - I don’t usually delete comments because I stand by what I say, but this was a case of mistaken identity lol

For what it’s worth, I think I make it pretty obvious I’m not a bot. Just chronically online haha

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You come get some Velma momma hugs whenever you want or need, please! My inbox is always open for you <3

If you had said “no stop I’m not feeling it” and he said “ugh I’m close can I finish?”

I can’t stop re-reading this, jesus fucking christ.

A woman says “No stop” and you don’t immediately fucking stop? What the fuck?

What the fuck?

I hate society, but I love seeing new posts from you! I was really happy to see your name in my inbox this morning, Miisha <3

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The issue with the Cornell case is that anything she said no to was respected (at least from the documents I have seen)

Why did she keep having to say ‘no’ over and over again then?

If you had said “no stop I’m not feeling it” and he said “ugh I’m close can I finish?” and you said “okay finish quick” then your consent would have been back being given.

This is coercion. You don’t get to push back on someone saying “stop”. That’s fucked up.

The artist feels it’s more important that the message is able to be shared widely.

Ohhh that looks delicious! Thanks for sharing!

More punishment than any the Cornell 7 have seen for actually gang raping a woman.

“Not onboard with various me too and whatever”

Mhm.

Because there’s a lot of discourse around the Cornell gang rape and people have a vested interest in making others disbelieve the Jane Doe in that case.

Interesting that this is posted today. I wouldn’t be surprised if we see the few cases like this being posted to help the narrative that rape victims commonly use false accusations.

False rape accusations occur around the same rate as any other false crime accusation. About 5%.

Compared to the fact that 90% of rape perpetrators never see the inside of the courtroom, it’s clear the entire system is fucked in how they handle rape cases.

He was forced to take a plea deal before the case could be heard by a jury because of racism:

Faced with a possible 41-year-to-life sentence, he accepted a plea bargain that included six years in prison, five years of probation, and registering as a sex offender. Banks stated that he took the deal after his lawyer told him that he stood almost no chance at trial because he would likely be tried by an all-white jury who would only see “a big, black teenager.” According to Banks, his lawyer convinced him that by pleading no contest he would receive probation, but no jail time. With only ten minutes to decide and denied the right to counsel with his mother, Banks took the deal.

The mod saw your use of meatpuppet as engaging with this rhetoric as it implies subservience and, to a small extent, sexuality (because of the meat part).

I have never, ever seen ‘meatpuppet’ being used as a homophobic slur.