Brazilians & Argentinians & Chileans & Ecuadorians & Nicaraguans are Americans too 😄

Trump is unacceptable. Someone please put the kibbosh on everything about him.

Eyebleach is truly an instinctive & necessary coping method.

Come back and proofread what you wrote and fix it so it’s intelligible.

no

You expect me to stop agreeing to people wanting to spend time with me and have sex with me? Isn’t that the pinnacle of the human experience to want to love & be loved? But then they end up treating me like free disposable trash and he eats my food that I paid for, and that’s how everyone is today, and that is what I’m complaining about. Love & sex shouldn’t be booty calls & using each other, it should be love. But all anyone ever does is use me, I’m 50 years old now and I’m sick of this shit. I want love. I don’t want to be alone.

I’m 50 and my occupational therapist just ordered me a $571 (fully covered by healthcare benefits) side-sleeping shoulder freedom pillow. Am a very happy girl.

I am not a whore. I’m a disabled veteran but still have to go to work to survive. That’s torture in itself. Work very hard for very little pay because apparently that’s how little the world values massage therapists.

Getting to the point I’m sick of people taking and giving nothing in return. I make daily agonizing nutritional sacrifices to maintain my health which results in being cute & sexy & and healthy as fuck but also a shy passive personality so people take advantage of me and they come out winning and I come out losing. Everyone wants a piece of me but they give nothing in return.

Update: he visited me today and he got his orgasm and he ate $10 worth of my food. I can barely afford to feed my own self. Do you think he owes me $10 for my food he ate? He gave me nothing in return but his smokin’ hot company for an hour and a powerful painful UNPLEASURABLE-FOR-ME pounding.

This is the second time he’s come by and eaten my food. If he does it again I will be assertive and tell him that food has monetary value and give him my venmo.

Porn is kinda like alcohol. It’s poison & the worst drug & most people are addicted to it so it will never be illegal or frowned upon. Oh but wait, there are some jurisdictions where those things are indeed illegal and/or strongly limited/regulated. Because they are powerful & harmful things.

You’re not wrong. People are downvoting because that’s the perspective of the audience here. They’re only here for a minute while they’re taking a break between porn sessions. They’re probably incapable of getting hard in the presence of a real woman. They’re probably overweight and out of shape and have low self-esteem and poor social skills. That’s what porn does to people.

He & I are both similar in many ways, he’s worth holding on to, I’m just tired of these unpredictable inconvenient booty calls. I’m too old for this bullshit.

Both of us are opposed to using the internet for dating. We live on the beach in Los Angeles and there’s no reason to use dating apps around here. Plenty of gorgeous datable people in beach cities.

We met in the real world in a yummy way, and we stay in the real world.

Funny you mentioned that, the first time we fucked happened to be on a Tuesday, December 9th 😄

you both sound very young (maybe late teens, maybe early 20s)

I’m 50. He’s 30-something.

And in your 3rd paragraph thanks for explaining the birds & the bees to me. 😂 But I think I have earned a master’s degree in that after I have birthed three children who are all grown adults now.

In your fifth paragraph, perhaps I can enlighten you that some women literally never orgasm with a man. That’s just how it is. Except one particular man got me there rather easily with his fingers & tongue one day in 2013. He was extremely studious & adept in ALL facets of life, I kid you not.

I’m mentioning money because I have a job that requires me to work every weekend. I earn average $600 every weekend. If he interferes with my job that weekend then he is inconveniencing me for his own orgasm. He gets an orgasm and I lose $600. Do you see the disparity there? To solve the disparity he should pay me $600 for his orgasm, so he gets what he wants without me having to sacrifice a whole weekend of income for him.

And this reminds me of a guy from 2014, I would have to drive 4 hours round trip to see him and he never came to see me and it was always a strain on my gas money so one time it was such a strain I asked him if he could contribute gas money and he said no and canceled our tryst. 🫤 Fuck men! Or better yet, stop letting men fuck me.

No I’m not a whore which makes me even more valuable than a w**** because I take impeccable care of my health and nutrition which makes me muscular and fit and beautiful and highly desirable, now he’s been treating me like an unpaid w**** .

This is why relationships exist. Ideally sexual partners live together so they can have sex whenever they want to. These booty calls and hookups and schedule conflicts and having to drive 40 minutes to see each other is getting tiresome. I am not a prostitute. But if he’s going to treat me like one…

I work every weekend for the rest of my life. That’s my life.

If I didn’t censor all my thoughts everything that goes through my mind would be considered rage bait. This is a real situation and this is really how my mind works. Notice I have not sent that text to him because I know it is not nice. That’s why I came to all you strangers for help, how to be a normal non-rage-baity person, plz help.

I’m a woman. He’s a man.

If he wants to keep me awake all Saturday night then I’ll have to miss two days of work which = $600 lost wages. Did I not already explain that to you?

But yes you’re right, if I say that to him he’ll never contact me again, but either way I have to say no because I need to work to survive, and his booty call requests always happen on weekends, and I’m never available on weekends.