• rarWars@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    9 days ago

    So real, I hate peeing where other people can see me, itā€™s so uncomfortable. I always either wait for a stall or find another bathroom.

  • wazzupdog (they/them)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    9 days ago

    Fuck public restrooms in general, i try to avoid them when possible. Unfortunately i must use them on rare occasion so i try to going places with exclusively gender neutral pissers. Itā€™s better that wayā€¦ <3

  • Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    9 days ago

    As told by he ancient legends, there are better restrooms with no urinals if you only have the courage to find them.

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    9 days ago

    I donā€™t know why lemmy keeps showing me these memes but I canā€™t think of an appearance im less like. However, I will only use the urinal if Iā€™m alone.

  • TheEighthDoctor@lemmy.zip
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    9 days ago

    For urinal enjoyers try the following experiment, bring a white shirt and pants and spray water with red food colouring at the urinal, then check your clothes

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      9 days ago

      Thatā€™s silly, just eat a few beets

      Your test isnā€™t valid or controlled, but peeing with beets is same orifice same destination.

  • u/lukmly013 šŸ’¾ (lemmy.sdf.org)@lemmy.sdf.org
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    8 days ago

    I canā€™t even use the stall if thereā€™s someone else in the bathrooms.
    But itā€™s impossible to explain that I am late because I had to try 3 different bathrooms and in the end ended up in a completely different building altogether.

  • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works
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    8 days ago

    Iā€™m at the point where Iā€™m not comfortable in the menā€™s room, but would go to jail if I went into the correct restroom
    guess I just donā€™t piss šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

  • PowerfulTurtle@lemmy.ca
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    8 days ago

    Sometimes I use the womenā€™s restroom because Iā€™m fem enough that I pass well, or at least well enough that no one has ever said anything about me going in there. I prefer it over the menā€™s room because itā€™s so much cleaner. I only used urinals when I was a kid and I didnā€™t like it back then either, so very quickly stopped doing it.

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        8 days ago

        I mean Iā€™m not as fem as I could be but I have long hair, a relatively soft mid pitch voice, little to no facial hair (I shave what little bit I have religeously). I do also wear makeup and lipstick often. I mean if someone really looked at me they could tell Iā€™m a boy, since I donā€™t quite have a feminine figure. Though it seems people donā€™t pay much attention to these details because not one person has ever questioned me.

        I do hope to become more feminine in the future though, I wanted to get E but I also donā€™t want breasts, I prefer having a flat chest. Iā€™ve heard of Raloxifene and that it can help but Iā€™m still doing research on its effectiveness. Want to be absolutely sure it wonā€™t give me problems and that I wonā€™t end up growing breasts anyway.

        btw just in case anyone suggests top surgery, that would be a no-go. I donā€™t want breasts and I certainly donā€™t want chest scars. I know some people think theyā€™re cute but I wouldnā€™t want scars on my chest just so I can be flat, scars would make me just as unhappy as boobs would.