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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Grand_Librarian4876 on 2023-08-24 01:11:27.

My girlfriend and I live together. She wakes up at 6am to get to work at 7am. Every morning, her alarm starts going off at 5am and she hits snooze over and over before she finally crawls out of bed at 6am to be in the bathroom getting ready for 45 minutes before she leaves. I work from home and don’t need to wake up until about 8:30am. I enjoy sleeping in until then.

It fucking maddens me that her alarm goes off constantly from 5am-6am and destroys my sleep and my morning. I’ve brought this up with her and she’s defended the habit and refused to quit because (1) she says it’s the only way she can get up in the morning, and (2) she has to drive to work for a job that starts much earlier than mine, and I work from home, so I should be accommodating to her and empathetic that she has to wake up so early and drive. After months of this I told her that the next time her snooze went off, I’d turn off her alarm on her phone.

This morning, I did that at 5am and reached over and just turned off the alarm on her phone after she hit snooze the first time. She slept through to about 6:40am, woke up, freaked out, and ended up about 10 minutes late to work. She is furious at me. But I insist I am right and I will do the same thing tomorrow. She needs to just set her alarm for 6am when she actually gets up and forget that the “snooze” feature exists.